Trust

Trust

No matter friends, lovers, co-workers,

the key factor of the relationship among you and them is

TRUST.

How can we win a person's trust?

Effort? Honesty? Patience?

NO.

Not three of them.

Ridiculously, if you only have these three thing,

you will win NOTHING.

However,

I have to tell you that

the most important characteristic among people's relationship is

HUMOR.

No matter you agree this argument or not,

you must consider this factor on the first turn.

HUMOR makes people happy.

HUMOR makes people relax.

OR

You can say that

HUMOR makes people lose "alert".

If you can not break people's defence of heart first,

you can't build any stable relationship with them.

People are too afraid of being lied.

In other words,

people always hates to be a fool.

They can't judge a people's honesty correctly,

because the whole environment makes them do the thing like that.

So HUMOR is too important when you are making friends with people.

In fact, I can not accept this HUMOR theory at all.

OR

I can not accept the point just

because I don't have HUMOR too much.

Trust can be built on telling people your true thinking,

your true feeling, and your true love.

BUT,

If you don't break the obstacle of society, the wall of people,

and the stubborn from yourself first.

You will fail in the end, and win NOTHING.

Xuite Sweet Alec Wrote It On Mar 27, 2008